Sowing
the seeds for good self-esteem
ìA baby is not born with bad feelings about himself. All
babies think they are wonderful,î said Violet Oaklander, a
childrenís therapist (Windows to Our Children, 1988). As children
grow, they receive many messages about themselves and how they are in
the world. Some of these messages lead them to develop low opinions of
themselves, believing that they are stupid, ugly or inadequate.
These messages can come in many ways. At worst, they are
the result of direct emotional abuse and unconstructive criticism; but
they can also be subtle and unintended, sometimes the result of
incidents over which parents have no knowledge or control. Once a
child develops a low opinion of herself, it is then easy for her to
interpret her experience selectively to reinforce those seeds, and
even to imagine what isnít even happening.
As parents, we can help our children to water the seeds of
good self-esteem rather than the seeds of low self-opinion by praising
our children when praise is due and by being specific in the way we do
so. Saying to a child, ìThank you for helping me in the garden.
Youíre the best gardener in the world!î sounds very positive, but
to a child with self-doubt it may be dismissed as too over-the-top to
be believed.
Praising a child more specifically by saying, ìThank you
for weeding the garden. You did a really good job of taking care to
only pull out the weeds and not the seedlings, and I liked the way you
tidied up afterwardsî, allows the child to realistically feel good
about their gardening abilities, to feel appreciated and to rightfully
feel good about themselves.
Kinway
provides counseling and relationship education groups for children and
adults. For enquiries, please ring Kinway on 9263 2050.
Reaching
their greatest potential
Kingsway Christian College helps all students reach their
greatest potential. Naturally, this means striving for studentsí
academic, emotional, social and physical potential through a rich
variety of learning experiences, but at Kingsway, it also means
striving for spiritual maturity. Kingsway Christian College reinforces
the Christian values taught at home.
Excellence is the hallmark of Kingswayís educational
programs. These fully accredited programs provide students with clear
pathways into further study and employment.
In 2004 Kingsway TEE students performed within the top five
per cent of the state with 100 per cent of eligible students
graduating.
Kingsway Christian College has a current enrolment of over
1,100 students at two campuses. The Darch campus caters for students
from kindergarten through to Year 12, whilst Merriwa campus caters for
kindergarten to Year Seven.
Kingswayís goal is to provide excellence in
Christ-centred education in partnership with their families, whilst
keeping Christian education affordable.
The
College is now interviewing for years 2007 and 2008. Limited places
are available, especially in years Six, Seven and Eight. For
comprehensive enrolment information contact the registrar, Mrs Peta
Ramsey, on 9302 8777.
Sign
language ñ a new world of communication for baby
The frustrations that both parents and babies may feel from
not being able to successfully communicate can be significantly
reduced through baby sign language.
The enjoyable, well researched and effective program
ëSimple Signsí has been operating in Perth for the past year with
the mission of introducing parents and babies to a whole new world of
communication ñ sign language.
Speech Pathologist, Samantha Bachofen has based the
ëSimple Signsî program on 20 years of sound research from the US
and the UK and from first hand experience of signing with her own
baby.
The program:
ï Specifically
targets hearing newborns to two-and-a-half year olds.
ï Teaches simple key-word baby
signs and scientifically proven techniques to help babies make quick
associations between the signs and the spoken words.
ï Offers the choice of
affordable one-to-one or group sessions.
Unlike Makaton, which is usually used to support the
communication development of children or adults with speech
difficulties, ëSimple Signsí teaches signs from Australian Sign
Language (Auslan), opening up your babyís world to an officially
recognised second language.
For
more information on Simple Signs & classes, call 0414 521 244
ICE-CREAM
Learning
The International Centre for Excellence (ICE) believes
learning should be as enjoyable as ICE-CREAM. It should be fun and
relevant to childrenís specific needs.
We have pioneered an innovative four-pronged approach to
teaching children ñ the CREAM method. This is now offered to
children in Australia and Singapore. Teachers and parents can also
sign up for training with us.
C: for Creative
R: for Reflective
E: for Engaged
A: for Active
M: for Multi-Sensory
Children are tested to determine their strengths and
weaknesses and then placed on individual learning plans. Please call
us for details on how to make sure that your child enjoys their
learning as much as ICE-CREAM.
The
International Centre for Excellence helps children with all sorts of
difficulties, including dyslexia and ADD. Call ICE on 9478 3323.
Helping
students become successful learners
Julia Gilmore (M.Ed.,B.Ed.,Dip.Tch)
Portfolios and reports will arrive home very shortly.
Secondary and primary reports can be difficult to interpret,
especially if a child is not achieving his/her potential.
In a recent survey, 99 per cent of a cross section of WA
teachers and parents reported dissatisfaction with the current
reporting system in primary school, most saying that they had no idea
whether their child was struggling, cruising or above average
academically.
This is what parents from A1 Learning have said:
ìI had no idea that Jon was so far behind.
His teachers have always told us not to worry that heíll
catch up.î
ìTeaganís teacher said that her handwriting and story
writing have really improved since she started at A1 Learning.
She is now scoring 100% in spelling and 95% in her last math's
test.î
ìMy twins, Adam and Sam were failing in Year 9.
Now they are organised and scoring mainly Bís in Math's and
English.î
Too many intelligent children are failing to meet their
ability levels in reading, writing, spelling and math's.
Causes may include low concentration, immaturity, and learning
difficulties such as dyslexia.
Other reasons may include large class numbers, poor
teaching and learning methods, moving from school to school and a lack
of remedial facilities in the school. It is vital to have an
educational specialist individually assess each child to find out what
is happening and why and, most importantly, what you can do about it!
For further information, advice or to book for assessment
and teaching programmes please call Julia on 9402 5080 or visit the
website at: www.a1learning.q-net.net.au
Making
friends is important
Most parents say that what they want most for their child
is to have friends, enjoy life and be happy.
Having friends and getting along with others is an important
part of being happy for a child.
If their child is successful at school and sport, but left
out on the playground, treated badly by others, or often in conflict
with peers, most parents says the other successes, somehow seem
unimportant.
ìPeopleî skills ñ being able to be warm and friendly,
approach groups, be a good listener, handle conflict and be assertive
ñ are extremely important, not only in making and keeping
friendships, but later on in getting and keeping a job.
The
good news is that these skills can be learned ñ and the earlier you
start the better! The Kidzmix Program is a unique group programme
developed by an experienced therapist. It coaches children in these
skills. Phone for details
of the upper (school years four to seven) and lower (school years one
to three) primary programs. Holidays and ages six to eight on
Saturdays. Phone 9382
8955 www.kidzmix.com
Help
for childhood speech and language difficulties
As parents we want to give our children every opportunity
to pursue their dreams.
You may have become concerned about your child because they:
ï Have difficulty
making themselves understood
ï Do not understand
instructions or stories
ï Find it hard to interact with
their peers
ï Have trouble learning to read
and write
ï Have challenging behaviour
because they are frustrated by their communication difficulties
Your child may have speech and language difficulties that
are preventing them from demonstrating their true potential.
Ballajura Speech Pathology Clinic can assess your childís
speech and language skills and identify specific areas of strength and
weakness. An individual
therapy programme will be designed and you will receive guidance on
how to support your child on a developmental journey through fun and
focused therapy.
Ballajura Speech Pathology Clinic treats:
ï Dyspraxia
ï Language delay
ï Comprehension difficulties
ï Central Auditory Processing
Difficulties
ï Reading and writing
difficulties
ï Stuttering
ï Autistic Spectrum Disorders
Call
9248 1353 and an experienced therapist will be happy to discuss any of
your queries.
Kumon
creates Perthís finest students
Parents in Perth are serious about giving their children an
early start to a lifelong love of learning.
An increasing number of parents are enrolling their children at
Kumon centres before they start primary school. Their wish is to have
them excel at mathematics and English in a confidence-building
environment.
Students start from any age in order to develop the skills
that will get them through school and university comfortably. The
Kumon Method develops more than studentís mathematics and English
skills. Through the study of the Kumon worksheets, students acquire
the experience of self-learning, and become self-motivated to learn
independently and confidently without always having to be taught.
Rupert Courtney was a bright student when he started the
Kumon math's programme in grade two.
ìKumon has helped me to become more organised at school
and at homeî Rupert explained.
ìMum has been trying to teach me that a little every day is
better than a big rush at the end.
I have to do Kumon every day, which I try to do before
school.î
The Kumon programme brings both parents and the Kumon
supervisor together to motivate and support the students. Michelle
says ìKumon has provided an opportunity for Rupert to further extend
his natural ability, it was immediately apparent that he was very
motivated and really wanting to do well with Math'sî.
She has been particularly happy with how ìthe programme
has developed Rupertís ability to work independently and
confidently.î Michelle
believes that ìhe has become better able to manage his time and sees
the benefit of doing his school homework consistently and not at the
last minute. He is also
just a kid, and needs to be able to achieve balance within life. I
really believe that Kumon has taught him to never give up and that a
little effort each day can bring big rewards.î
Kumon
Education Centres are located across the Perth metropolitan area. For
more information about Kumon please call 1800 458 666 or visit www.kumon.com.au
Just
who is Kip McGrath?
Kip McGrath: sounds like an American in a kilt doesnít
it? But noÖ
Kip McGrath is an Australian man who had a vision, more
than thirty years ago, for the future. As a classroom teacher and
principal he recognised that some children need extra help with their
basic academic skills: reading, writing, spelling, English and math's.
With his wife, Kip McGrath wrote the programme that still
forms the basis of the KMEC system. Their catch cry became: ìGive
your child a brighter futureî. There are now over 400 centres around
the world, including 20 in WA.
Kip McGrath Education Centres provide professional tuition
for children in Years One to 12. The philosophy is: ìAll children
can learn, they only need to be taught wellî. All tutors are
qualified and experienced teachers and programmes are designed to suit
the needs of the individual child. Assessment is free.
A comment from a KMEC student says it all: ìAt school I
used to struggle with some tasks but after attending Kip McGrath I now
find I can do things above my year level with ease. I have established
a reputation as one of the smarter children in my classÖî
See
the White Pages for a centre near you or visit www.kipmcgrath.com.au
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